Eagle, that is EXACTLY what my W said in counseling - he is "super" husband and I don't want it. I said I was doing this for myself. Then of course, I backslid Thursday and Saturday nights...
I am like you - in total limbo. I am willing to give this a long time, and trying to be patient!
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09