JenIV/CBK,

Thank you. I have been so focused on detaching that I expect results right away. I do know that I hit my babygoals almost every day. I swap out 1 a week (remove easy and input a new one). I just have no belief that she is in conflict..... I just need to keep detaching and letting it happen.....

I have not really reacted to last two or three cruel jabs.. I have heard her complain on phone that "He is so nice that it is driving me F$%&%$ Crazy!!"

I just wish I knew what was going on in her head.