Patience - you and I are in the same boat, at least you have been doing a good job DBing for a couple of weeks, I have been since Sat. My thoughts are just like yours. The more I detach, the more she likes it! It seems so counter-intuitive, but all my posters say I have to detach more, don't call, don't have R talks, etc.
Stay strong. Sorry I haven't been around, I have been having a real rough time as well.
Be strong,
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09
