That is second time some one has told me to "validate".
Do you mean not to dismiss what she is saying, or to try to tell her what she is really feeling? Accept what she is telling me as fact?
If so, than I believe I have been doing a pretty good job at that, at least.
PS....it's 10PM, I am going to jump in the shower so when she gets home we can go out to shoot some pool and have a beer.... She's confused??? My head is spinning.
Thanks guys for throwing in your 2 cents. I really have no one else to talk to.