Hi Peace! Thank you for responding to me, I just need all the support I can get right now. The OW is almost 2 years older than my H!! Can't you believe that??? According to my friends I look a lot younger than I am, which I love! H does look his age, but I still think he looks good, his gray hair is bothering him, I don't have any gray & neither does my 80 year old Dad. From the looks of the picture I saw of her, she is bleach blonde & looks like trash.