Hey whatdidido, checking in on you, I also noticed that you were gone for a short while, was glad to hear from you again.

I just got done with my workout (2.25 miles on treadmill) and I'm all sweaty, Starshyne would say yuk !!! S5 is standing here asking if I will tuck him into bed, I asked him, what do you think daddy would say, no?? - hold on I'll be right back

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whatdidido: I hear about other people's stories and think I really don't have it that bad. But, to me, my emotions are just all messed up.
Your emotions may be more messed up, you're in what they say is like a drug withdraw. whereas we are just confused and we are both hurting.

I'm interested in your experience at retrovaille, by July I may need some advise on how to do laundry. Its the only thing I was not allowed to do. I was allowed to cook, clean, cut grass, fix stuff, remodel rooms, take care of the kids, but I was never allowed to do laundry - W thought I would screw it up.

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whatdidido: The OM is still in my thoughts...hope that it will go away soon....
its going to take a long time for OM to get out of your head. You are doing so well, as I said before most of us wish we had a W like you, trying to make their marriage work. Your husband is soooo lucky.

Are you letting H know the stuff you like, and keeping it simple, I like when you hug me, I like it when you tell me about your day, etc, If you tell him what you like and keep it simple I believe he will respond with more of what you like.

Will check in on you later, you are doing so good

M45
W41
M10 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 Merry christmas to me
PA confirmed 03/08 not intercourse yet ??
W moving out June 1 already signed lease on apartment