I have not posted in some time either. I still check in daily. I am loving the fact that OW was nothing to write home about. I don't know what is going on with these H's, but I do believe yours, mine and all the others will have regrets. I backed of my H big time and he calls several times per day, hangs out when he drops S off and he just told me today he was proud of me for getting ready to finish school in a week. The "very old" me would have been all over that. My H is pretty screwed up and our M was screwed up for some time. I can see that now. I would love for H to come back, but not until he got his head right. I know it is not me. I see that now too. He has his own issues that he needs to work out. He may never do that. I also hear him talk about how things are at his mom's house. I hear him say certain things and though I don't say it to him, I think to myself thank GOD that I no longer have to deal with that. I want my marriage to work, but no longer at the expense of my wants and needs and most of all my sanity. I would rather be alone than accept the BS he was putting out.
I too am proud of you. You have come a long way baby!
