I will surely second what Kalni mentioned as far as the amazingness of your continual growth during this whole thing.
"She said I was controlling and she wanted to be free from me, but I think she really needs to be free from herself."
I hope and pray as I am sure you do that in time she will reach this reality. The circuitry for the light bulb to come on is in need of some major fixing but sooner or later it may happen.
Stay strong brother. God is watching and he is fully aware of the truth. Grace is watching of course, too.
