First, sorry about your spurs last night, I actually stayed awake and watched!
Sounds like a lot of interesting things going on. Remember, don't get your expectations high and take baby steps. I know that if my W was doing that, I would be into full throttle ahead R fixing, and I know that isn't right! Keep up the good fight, you seem to be doing great.
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09