I'm in the same place. I am finding that when I db and GAL (I'm going back to school) h seems to want to be more involved. he's only been gone 3 weeks and sometimes I cry all day and sometimes I truly feel like I never want him back. it's so hard.
But what I'm realizing is that db is about YOU. US. not "getting them back" and it's a hard pill to swallow, but when I DO db, I see a softening.
