I would like to thank everyone for their support but I am done. I have had enough and can take no more. I love my husband to bits and never in a million years imagined this - we were suppossed to grow old together and be happy doing it. He is now cold towards me and treats me like I never meant a thing. He virtually never sees his d and shows no real interest in her. He called today for some information he needed and did not even ask how she was. Financially things are a mess and he says he cannot help.I love him to bits but he has gone and I really don't think he is ever coming back. I think the last straw for me would be D papers arriving so I have decided to get them done and I will file. I know this is what h wants so he will not have to do it himself. Typical, cowards way out. Well he has won. Today he told me that he has not done the D cos he does not have the time or money. I am worth more than this. I know it will be a hard road but I have faith that there is someone else out there that will respect me and my d and will love us unconditionally.
Again thank you all, I would not have made it this far without all your support. I wish you all the best of luck and may your situations work out well, however they may end.