You have to let her go. No choice. Giving her resistance is your way of trying to get what you want. You must mean it from your heart. This process is against our typical reactions.
Like we have learned from DB....let her know you want to try to save the R but, you are prepared to let her go and respect her for her decision.
Truly move on with your life. Meet with as many friends and OW, not serious though. It takes time but, if you follow DB you will see the light

M 55
WAW 53
S29
S27
S24
married 32 yrs
bomb 5/07 ilybinilwy
settling finances now. We date each other now.
I gave her months of darkness, minor contact, NO STRESS, I asked for nothing. Now we are friends. Now we have a chance.

Me 54
W 54
S 29
S 27
S 24
M 32
bomb 5/07
MO: 8/07
D 7/09
dating W
W wants back 4/10