I come home and see a note from him that says "Working in EV (town that is a half hour from here) 3:30-7:30." I wonder why he thinks that he needs to tell me of his whereabouts when it is something like work or the gym, but when he decides to stay out until 2am, he doesn't contact me at all.
What is different about work/gym vs. going out? On your end of course - do you not ask? Do you not call? Do you ask him how it was when he got home and listen/validate?
What do/don't you do when you know he is out at a bar? Do you think you could change something about that interaction so that he'd be more open about it?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
