Sara go one step further and put the leftovers up. If he wants diner he can be home when it is dinnertime or make it himself. Live for yourself right now. kat
That was my plan yesterday, actually. But he came in from mowing the lawn just as dinner was ready. So I just said. "There is some food on the stove if you want it." And he was all "Oh wow, this is great. I love this rice you make. Thanks so much!" So that was nice.
I come home and see a note from him that says "Working in EV (town that is a half hour from here) 3:30-7:30." I wonder why he thinks that he needs to tell me of his whereabouts when it is something like work or the gym, but when he decides to stay out until 2am, he doesn't contact me at all.
I have yet to see a pattern as to what night he stays out. I think it would be easier on me if I knew that on Thursdays (or whatever) he wouldn't be home. But he is such a spur of the moment type (always has been) that I am sure he doesn't have it planned out.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
