I have not been here in a while and thought I would check in and see what was up.
You are exactly where I am right now.
Read the books, done the work, been to counseling (couples, individual, etc..). Progress has been made but now I too struggle with getting over being beaten down for so long (almost 6 years now).
I told the W I wanted a divorce in January. She convinced me to keep trying but I no longer feel like I want to. It all just seems like too much work to me now. I know part of it is me. I am just SOOOOOO tired of working on this thing I can't stand it.
I had anger and frustration for a long time. Now, I don't feel much of anything toward this anymore.
I do still like my wife as a person but I don't really feel much more than that for her. I wonder if I ever will. It seems too late. Obviously, I am curious to see how people respond to your post. I am looking for these same answers as well.
