Pregnant and heading for acceptance #2

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ST - thanks for posts. I do know that their R is based on lies and the pain of others. It's hard for me to believe that he is happy or that she is happy. But, I always take the negative road. I'm working on changing that. I know that she is tainted in the eyes of my in-laws. It's just the idea of her mingling with my family that urks me.

As for not showing up on Sunday, no problem. If he asks I'll just say I was busy and chose to come Monday when I had more time.

I also appreciate the snippet you posted from the email. I found it very hard to believe that in 6 months time he is so sure of his choice that he left his W, tore his family apart, moved in with OW and took on the responsibility of OW's kids, and is eager to M her. I know that it is a possibility. But, it would make more sense that he found OW who would allow him to walk away from his wife and child, move in with her rent free with her children especially when she barely knows him, allow him to buy all the toys his little heart desires. He found a woman who seems by all accounts desparate to get M. Her baby daddy wouldn't M her (speaks volumes is you ask me) so she wants my H, at all costs. Whatever. I'm putting my faith in it failing. I just hope it doesn't get to the M part or any further than it already has. I've always felt in my heart that she was pressuring H. But, I could be very wrong. No point in analyzing it. I have no control over the decisions my H makes.

chris - really good to hear from you. I hope your sitch is doing well. I'll have to stop by and catch up. I'm working on the "happy" list and trying to look at the big picture and not every little detail.