Pregnant and heading for acceptance #2

[S.T. _I Made It!]

I don't know if this is really a good time to post this, but I'm on a email list and I got this today.. I posted part of it, it's written by a WAH who almost M his OW, but didn't and came back to his W later. Since I know you are a believer, I thought this could help you.

"Sadly, most married people who walk out on a spouse have or will become involved with someone else. The natural progression of continued dating is toward marriage. Even though your absent spouse may desire that illicit arrangement to continue status quo, I can assure you that third person is pushing and pushing toward marriage.

As a stander, please do not feel that your prayers have been unsuccessful or that you have failed in marriage restoration if your spouse enters a non-covenant relationship. You have failed only if you give up. It is our Lord God’s reputation that is on the line, not yours, and He will do exactly what He promised you, but in His timing and not in man’s.


Here are my Five P’s to help you when you are faced with your mate’s non-covenant marriage:


Pray - Learn how to pray for your spouse who is being forced into marriage.

Proposal - Remember, that other person most likely proposed marriage, not your mate.

Peace - Get the peace of God that He has your mate in His hand today, regardless of what words may have been mumbled to someone else. God is saying that you and your beloved are still married.

Purpose - Refocus your purpose in standing. Is it to get even with the other person and bring your mate home or is it so that all involved will come to a personal relationship with Jesus Christ?

Promise - Reclaim the promises that God has given you and hold fast to them. God never changes.