Ok feel a mlc of my own coming on, I deserve it , doncha think? lol, wouldnt be destructive though- I've seen first hand what that can do!
Today my baby is 23 I miss him tho and feel bad that he dosnt have family around and he and his friends are cramming for finals so not too much partying going on. I tm him at exactly midnight, he was in the library, he called, his GF in NY set her alarm for 3:00 a.m, to call him, thought that was very sweet of her.
I can say my baby bird is well out of the n est, although does need to come back to it for maybe one last summer lol So now its time for ME!! yeah!!! lol
It feels weird not to have to take care of, or be in charge of anyone anymore maybe why i got goofy kitty who, btw, I have learned to love already its hard for us women to say ,ok go your on your own, you dont need me, cya!
I can relate to how Barbs feeling right now. Went thru something similar 2 yrs ago when R left for college. then turning around and not having these people staring at you to help them, and be there for them.
After you get over that tho, you start to think, wow, this is kinda neat! I dont have to foddle over anyone! no dinners to prepare, homework to help with, rides to give, IN LAWS to please! lol
Now its time for me! I have found someone i want to spend some me time with but we both agree, our job as parents is for the most part done. Our kids are grown and for the most part on their own. Its time for US!! wheres that RV????
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life