on sunday he told me he was to scared to ask d and i to do something, thought i would do it. he came over monday morn, had long talk about everything. appears we are going to work it out. we pretty much spent all monday together except when i went to work out, he watched our d so i could and was with us till he left for work tues morning. he actually made plans for us to come over today, watch d so i can work out again, said plan on spending the night, bring clothes for me and d and toys for her. the 1 problem we had yesterday was about his parents, they are worried he's making amistake by talking to me or having anything to do with me. he told him it was what he wanted to do, needed to give me a chance and that was teh way it was going to be. it really bothered me and now i have to face his parents knowing they weren't to cool on the idea to begin with. not only do i have to do this with resistance from his family but friends as well. this is def. a different roller coaster.
the building of trust on both parts is so hard and it is easy to just say screw it and lets forget it all. he knows i have some pressure of where my d and i live and wants to find a place for us with his roommates, this is going to be interesting in how that works, since my other d of 16 will be visiitng for the summer at the end of june...
Me 40 H 30 D19 previous marriage, d3 and s10months H walked out nov 1, 2009 Seperated ever since filed for d nov 2010, served h 12-22-10
