H is odd today. I had asked him last night if he wanted to go to the movies tonight. I did this for a couple of reasons.
One, he seems to always leave at the same time when he does come over, that small part of me that thinks he might be living with the OW wants to shake that up.
Two, if he is not invovled with OW and really does call her only to discuss our issues because she is his "friend", the phone bill actually aligns with that (even though this is not acceptable to me). He is still not welcome home while this is going on but I want him to remember that we can have a good time together and I am not just that cold person who will not respond to his texts or tell him where I was.
So, as I mentioned earlier he has been texting all day first concerned about my imaginary visitor then about me playing catch at lunch. Since I have been responding to texts he has sent me probably 50 today. He just called to tell me his phone is dead and he left his charger at work in case I texted him and he didn't respond(thoughtful?). He is at my house but it sounded like he was outside so I asked if he was and he said yes he cut the front and side grass and swept the driveway for me.
Ok and this is really odd - no one freak - he said I thought it might be nice if you wore a skirt to the movies so I layed one out on the bed.
I am not reading anything into this (other than H may actually be insane or have a brain tumor like the guy on Grey's) but it is extremely different than the person I have been dealing with recently.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009