And 40 is not old...but she is! I hope I didn't offend anyone who is 40+! It's funny because all of my friends were expecting that she was going to be some seriously fabulous sexy woman...and from what they say that is not the case at all. The great thing is that I'm feeling better about myself than I have since my 20's. I didn't know this body was still under there but apparently it is. I don't mean to sound vain....I'm not...but I know H has to be noticing this and if CFB is what people are saying she is then hopefully he gets a good look at what he's missing!! Dumba$$.
Anyway...just made an appmt to list my house next Monday. Hopefully the legal stuff is over with by then. The real estate agent for the house I want called my agent to see if we wanted to make an offer. This is good news because they aren't getting any action so hopefully it will come down in price. It's kind of fun to sit back and watch fate take it's course without worrying about what the outcome will be. Why worry? So hopefully it will all fall into place...the next couple weeks will tell for sure.
My D has been having a really hard time at night. She's been sleeping in my bed with me because she doesn't want to go in her own bed. I've faught it a bit, but I am giving in. Normally I'm a stick to my guns kind of parent...let her whine it out for a while. But I feel so bad for her because things are so upside down for her with her 'new room' at her dad's 'new house'. Not to mention the 'new woman' and the 'new kids' that live there. My poor little girl is being put through the ringer so who the he!! cares if she wants to sleep with me? If she's still doing it in college then maybe I have something to worry about...for now if it's the way I can make her feel safe then sobeit. Can you tell that I'm trying to convince myself of this as I say it?
and Kerry...thanks for saying you don't know why H left me...I appreciate that. J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out