Thanks everyone for your thoughts and opinions,I think braveheart said it best though.She knows she did some things wrong as did I but she thinks I would never be able to forgive her and maybe I couldnt.I do know there is a lot of resentment there and it would be difficult and what she has is easier then what she would have to deal with to reconcile.I think they will be engaged to be married soon anyway so its probably best that I admit defeat and heal my wounds.
