Hopefulll: Kicked her out while she was in Hawaii

[kat727]

I agree. As for her parents knowing, she may have just said you were having problems and wanted to have some "space" for a while. My H told my in-laws that we were just having problems and didn't bother to mention that 1) he wasn't going to do anything about the problems and that 2) the problem was in the shape of an OW.
Definetly focus on you because dwelling on thoughts about her or trying to figure her out won't help right now. She is like a chameleon(sp?) right now and will change to what suits her for the moment.
kat