AmyC

[Bworl]

I have to say that it seems to me that Amy is operating from an extremely good position.

Maybe not the one she wishes she was in, but a strong one nonetheless.

I sincerely doubt that she would reject any clear movement in a positive direction. At least not right now.

And there's something really good to be said about being able to accept and embrace whatever comes your way, good or bad.

Baby steps is a notion that I don't care much for. Much too hard to assess and is usually assessed incorrectly, leading people to react in ways that hurt rather than help.

I remember my counselor chiding me often about allowing events to simply "be." No great significance. Not necessarily moving them closer or farther away. Simply an event that took place that we either enjoyed or didn't.

That's where Amy seems to be to me right now.

And I think that's a really good place to be.


Blessings,

Bill