Jen, has your H usually done the finances? Or did you? If H usually did them, I think researching phone plans that work better for you both financially would be a good 180 and you'd be protecting your family's assets at the same time.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09