I appreciate your input, L&L. Things have settled down and it hasn't been mentioned again, yet. I did email her and my sister to see who is available to help at night with Ryan and she seemed to be pretty much ready to help. So I won't challenge.
Interesting notes, though...
I really loved her ex boyfriend. They were high school sweethearts and he is a gem. I love his family too. Miss him. Josh does too. My friends have mentioned this as well. New BF is not personable at all. Nurses have noticed. He doesn't even acknowledge the rest of us in the house. Yes, he may be shy, but its just not so comfortable. So - no - I don't DISLIKE her BF but I did like her other one so much more.
Her ex BF came to see me last week. He had a new GF for a little while (not for at least 6 months after they split) and he has now broken up with new GF (too clingy and jealous he said). But he has missed us. Is going away to work for the summer.
Yesterday Ash said to me "I can't figure out why I can never remember C (Ex BF)'s house number. I've already got his new cel # memorized. Hmmmm...
Had an opportunity to hang out in a group with Ex BF last week but her BF discouraged it. He is jealous. Hmmm....
Mentioned hanging out with ex BF and his group this w/e since he'll be leaving to go away. Hmmm...
I mentioned having a free airline ticket and wondered how I'd use it. She asked if she could have it to attend a mutual friend's wedding in Chicago. I asked who would be going. She said he only invited 5 people - herself and ex BF among them - not new BF. I really doubt ex BF would go but it made me wonder. Hmmmm....
Anyway, whatever is going on - she is oblivious to it. Sometimes even when you get hit over the head with it you still don't see it.
She has agreed to go to the movies with me this afternoon to see "Maid of Honour". I really wanted to see it, her less so. I just wonder if that might make her think.
Josh has his fingers crossed on this one and so does my best friend and her husband. I think if anything happens - its still a couple of months away. And who knows - maybe ex BF will hook up with someone new while he is away and the chance will be lost. Hmmmm....
