If one day he finds a way to remove his head from his rectal cavity , acknowledge the horrors he has commited, and vow his love to you again, well...we'll see.
I may just be too sensitive to this, but here is what is the ultimate dealbreaker for me (as far as cohabitating):
"I'll let you know in August what the deal is going to be with me and OW."
I am not interested in being a "decision" or "choice" between me and some new person. Let me make the decision for you in that case - GO.
Just my opinion.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."