Wow, that's quite a load to carry around, and for you to face. (((Michelle)))
and your H gets a little one (H) for all he's had to face, too.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09