When life just hits you

[ACJ]

the kids feel that, in order to get their dad's attention, they have to "like" the OW

My H has all but said this to my children and his actions certainly say it. That has hurt them more than anything else.

Cinders I too know how all this feels. I didn't handle it with your grace and in a way I am paying the price now. You are one special lady. Never forget that.