I couldn't believe it either when OW "Thanked Me", just like he was a gift or something. I don't believe my H condoned that & I doubt he knew she did it until I called & left him a voice message. That just goes to show what kind of person she really is & I hope he will realize that soon. He thought his first wife was manipulative, she doesn't hold a candle to this woman, I don't think anyway. She has already been married at least 3 times if not more & she was on that scuba diving trip to get her a Man. I don't know for sure but I believe she has done this before & will probably do it again & I doubt she was faithful to my H while he was still here. My H usually doesn't like women like her, he says they slept with every Tom, Dick & Harry & he just doesn't like it. I just cannot figure out what kind of control she has over him. We were so happy & so much in love, he was almost obsessed with me. He would call all the time just to say he loved me & ask me if I loved him. He bought me an SUV for Xmas 2006, so you could tell then he wasn't planning this.
H's son (from 1st marriage 21) told my H's SIL that he knows his Dad is going thru a MLC & that he didn't even know this OW except thru emails & a few visits. He has been out there since 3/6/08 & this is the longest they have ever been together.
I'm so glad I have found this site! Thank you so much for your support, I'm really having some hard days.
How long does this usually last?? I know everyone is different.
