H's 1st affair 10 years ago ended after 6 months, he just decided he wanted to be with me and our boys, he was sorry would do what ever it took to help our marriage work - and it did for 7 wonderful years.
Then this bomb - more or less right under my nose, he didn't give a damn, still doesn't no remorse, not a care about who he has hurt, it's as if he is entitled.
This affair lasted 6 months before i knew and then 6 months following seperation.
I do not know if there have been any other A's, I feels there must have been, he holidays, he parties, he spends. His life is a secret, we have no insight into who he shares his time with.
I expect some OW will come crawling out of the woodwork when the D is final to claim her share of the D settlement.
I just don't know, part of me hopes that there is an OW, because I wouldn't like to think he is on his own, getting used to a single life totally, although I must say I do enjoy my own space, and I am getting used to it.
Our sons think he is alone, but I think they just hope he is rather than truly believe he is.
