You are getting a lot of good posts Cinders. It isn't just to make you feel better. They are right. Over time, the novelty will wear off.

It is common to want to like someone else to get approval and more attention from another person. The OW may be fascinating or the kids feel that, in order to get their dad's attention, they have to "like" the OW. The kids may not even be aware they are doing it.

If we are enamored by you, I can imagine how it must be for your children to have a mom like you!

Keep the faith, little sis!


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God