I wonder if the way he treats you is because every part of your home life is an open book to him persay. He comes and goes as he pleases ignoring the 2 hour notice and doing what he wants. Then he and D have secrets that she can't talk about.(his life is closed to you) Sounds like he has everyone right where he wants them for the moment and I feel it is very selfish of him.
Maybe try setting those boundries and when he does come over maybe make sure you look awesome and go out the door when he shows up and make him wonder what secret you have. Have a plan with a friend, you'll feel good I swear to you. It's a PMA pick me up.
((((((MAT))))))
Really, Thank you for being there for me right now!
JAK
Last edited by jak58; 05/06/0812:47 PM.
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