Pregnant and heading for acceptance #2

[S.T. _I Made It!]

Forgiveness is NOT accepting what they did was okay. Forgiveness means what they did was a sin, it was wrong. But that we love that person and know that they are a sinner and we forgive them for what they did against us, even knowing that they may sin against us again.

Listen, we too have sinned against our spouse. We have sinned against everyone, our parents our friends, God. God is the ultimate forgiver, that no matter how many times we do the same wrong, he will keep forgiving us if we only ask him.

I'm not sure how else I can explain forgiveness. I actually forgave my H, outloud, to him w/o him asking for it. I knew that he may still sin against me, but I accepted him for what he was and I had faith that someday he WOULD have remorse and he would understand what he was doing.

My faith grew very strong during my sitch, and using Jesus as my example, showed me that no matter how much hurt one has caused me, I can still forgive. As he was dying on the cross he told his father "father please forgive them, they know not what they do". He was talking about those who put him to death. I did feel like I was dying. I remember telling my H, "I feel as though I've been stabbed by you a thousand times".

I will pray that God will show you how to forgive your H.

I also believe that your H's R with D is going to be different then that of everyone else. I do feel that he will feel closer to her than anyone else because she does not have the ability to judge him, and I do think he feels judged by everyone. of course warranted, but I also believe he's never going to come around with everyone judging him.

On the psychic, I may just be being skeptical, but just the fact that you are pregnant would make me assume that another child would be in your soon to be future... if I was a psychic that is. And I'm glad to hear you saying a couple years, I was afraid you were meaning much sooner! shwew! thank you for clarifying.