Well....no need to have that talk. H and I had another R talk earlier this afternoon and again just a couple of hours ago.

Can't post much right now - I have to get the boys to bed and I am also babysitting my 3yo niece (H is out in the man-cave) - but I believe H and I are going to go through with the D. I just cannot try to make this work all on my own with someone who says they "don't get along with you (me), don't like talking to you, and just don't want to do anything with you at all".

I tried notifying the moderators a couple of times, asking them to take my story out of the "Another Divorce Busted!" forum, ever since it was brought to my attention that they had done so. Why they haven't taken it off so or even responded are beyond me.

All I wanted was for him to meet me halfway, and he can't....he WON'T.....do it. He chooses to not even try.

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell