(((((((Jeanette!))))))) I got the clothesline hung back in thread two, or something!
Hmmm, goals. Right now, I have some goals for myself. I don't have too many that involve W. Sure, I'd like a hug, but I am not expecting one, any time soon. We got through S13's appendectomy pretty well as parents, so that was good. Though we have always been able to do things like that.
For me, well, I am really going to lose weight, and get more healthy. The liver, and now diabetes thing are getting my attention. I haven't had a soda since April 9! I've started seeing a C, and started ADs last Thursday. Most of those things should help me with me energy level, and that can't be a bad thing. With a little more energy, I will get back to regularly working on the trains, and I'll be able to do a better job of keeping my room cleaned up, too.
So, W really doesn't enter into many of my goals right now. Which strikes me as the right way to operate. She is pretty self absorbed right now, trying to actively break onto that would be a bad plan, in my opinion.