Real life's getting more like fiction each day....

[Starshyne]

Well when H got home, he mowed the lawn and we watched tv together (right now he is in the bathroom getting ready for bed). He didn't mention the lawyer stuff and I didn't bring it up. He did seem to be acting very kind to me....like my "normal" husband. I know if nothing else, he is thinking.

I dont' know if he would want the marital support or not. The lawyer just wanted me to be aware of that possiblity. It just seems so silly to me. I wonder if things will change once he finishes these classes and if he gets a better paying job. Who knows, that might make a difference.

She said that the only way I could get him out of the house would be to file for a divorce then I would have to wait 4-6 weeks for a judge to decide and he would then have 30 days to get out. She always told me how expensive this would be. It almost seems like I should just wait it out and see if he find a place by August-September like was the original plan. Going through the court would be 2 1/2 month, which would be mid-July if I started right away. The whole thing would cost me about $500. Seems a little expensive, especially if he is going to leave on his own a month later.

I am still holding out that he is going to have a change and be willing to communicate things with me. No longer staying out until 2am. and prepare to work on our marriage. Maybe it seems hopeless, but I am still believing that it will happen.