Life is good, people. I can't believe how far we've come, H and I. Things are so good, actually, that the MC asked us if we're ready to go do this all on our own. We decided to drop down to once a month for the next couple of months and then decide. Honestly, I think we're through now.

What's changed? Really...I've learned to let go of fear in my R. It started with getting bombed and going through the DB process, continued with setting my boundaries, and cemented with a situation that happened to me last week where, when I went to H for support, I found he absolutely had my back with no judgment at all. It's still going to take practice, but...jeez guys, to be able to bring any situation to my H and know I'll be supported...to not be afraid of his judgment or reaction any more...it's what I've always wanted.

We are both lighter and happier in spirit together. It has truly been the type of reconnection...maybe even just real connection...I've always wanted.

There is light at the end of the tunnel after all....

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!