Or he might totally become angry. That's how my H reacted. Called me every name in the book and said I didn't have to do that (call a L). Whatever. He gave me no choice when he threatened to make money and other community assets disappear.

Hopefully your H wouldn't behave this poorly, but just be prepared to expect anything.

(((((Sara)))))


Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell