Just wondering, don't you think you'd know if things were not right with H? I mean, don't you instinctively feel that he's working on you guys? It may not be to the extent you want, but he's still working on your R. For example, I imagine there's a profound difference between how your H is acting now than how he was acting while he was having his A.
If my W was having another A, I think I would know from her behavior--distant, leaving frequently, agitated, unpleasant, unaffectionate, etc. Our Ses can be secretive, but they are not that good...........are they???
