Real life's getting more like fiction each day....

[MichelleLT]

I didn't read everyone else's comments, just your journaling Sara.

It sucks that most states are no-fault now, it doesn't matter who did what. BUT the court WILL ALWAYS accept a settlement agreement that you work out. So IF you decide to file, look at mediation and see if you can work out an agreement with your H. He may not want alimony because of pride, and if he doesn't then that's better than what the courts would do by default.

You are very strong. I am very impressed with how you handled the meeting.

(((Sara)))

Don't dread talking to your H. This has got him thinking. He may try and talk you out of it, he may take you seriously. Whatever the case, you will do what you want and need to do.