I think that we have to hang on to that feeling that the A will end. I have always had a feeling that my H will come home, eventually. I try not to obsess about OOW (13 years younger), but is very hard not to. H denies MLC, but friends and family are certain that's what this is. Seems like a text book case to me. Never thought this would happen to me/us, but here I am, in the middle of a nightmare called MLC. I am hanging on for the ride and don't plan on letting go. I do have confidence that the A will end. Maybe not tomorrow, but all in good time. Hang in there. You are surrounded by friends here!
Me 41 H 42 T 21 yrs M 16 yrs S15, S11 Bomb 1: Not happy 09/06 Bomb 2: Not in Love 02/08 Bomb 3: Admits to EA, poss PA? with OOW 03/24/08 Moved out 04/11/08 (our 16th wedding anniversary) Go Bills! Go Sabres!