no they wouldn't, not a real friend anyway. your lucky that you are able to support yourself and your d's, i think if i was finacially able to I might have left already. but the welfare of my kids would be in his hands (money wise) and i wouldn't want to count on him that way.

Im trudging through. im pretty sure when s2 goes to kindergarten (which is some time away) i will get regular job, like i had before, Although I love being a sahm... I hate the fact that he is the breadwinner. i worked for 11 years before i quit to be with son#1, now its just i do things for the business, which is not seperate from my life with him. i do need something of my own... i will just have to wait.

sorry to spew off like that.

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.