I was reading some other advice on As and the various "types" of As.

Bits and pieces I picked up:

Most As fail within 2 years.

(Hmm, been 1 year in my sitch and seems to be going strong?)

Try to have confidence that A will end.

This has been hard for me, despite the fact that it's textbook MLC and A w/someone w/major problems to boot.

Thoughts on confidence that A will end?

I'm quite confident A will end. In some ways it seemed like a vengeance thing on his part.

Whether I will be part of H's future after that--I do not know.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D