I let my anger get the best of me today. I didn't have a sitter for D this afternoon during S's t-ball practice. She doesn't generally behave well at those sorts of things. I called H to see if he wanted to bring him. I told him it wasn't a big deal if he couldn't. He said "I don't think I'll be able to." I said, "OK then." Seriously, that is all I said. He got mad at me and said "Look, you don't have to get all pissy about it!" I responded, "Well, I wasn't pissed, but I am now!!" Then I hung up on him. He called back a little while later to apologize, but it was too late. I was so mad! I just let him have it. He tried to tell me that he was just having a rough day at work because he was working in the rain, etc. I told him that I understood he was stressed, but it didn't give him the right to take it out on me. I told him he lost that privilege when he left me. I also told him that if it was THAT big of a deal to do extra things with the kids, I would just quit asking him. I know I came across as a b****, but sometimes I think I am entitled to be a little angry. He can't expect me to be all sunshine and roses with all this going on. I have put up with ALOT from him over the years. I think he is just trying to get me to react negatively so he cam justify what he is doing. I told him so too. I told him that was not fair, because I have done nothing wrong. He has said so himself. He said I was reading too much into it. I said that maybe I was, but it still made me mad. Then I let him go.
