Your story sounds very much like mine. I too went to a lawyer just for info. I have no desire for a divorce, but H went to a lawyer, so I figured I better get some info too. My H and I are still living seperately, and I hope everyday that something or someone will snap him back to the man I married, because this person that I have been dealing with the past year, is not the man I married. I can totally relate to your comments. My attorney also saw that I am not ready to file or even contemplate D. He told me to fight like hell. I had more control than I gave myself credit for. So, take stock of the advice you received and file it away for later. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. That's what I am doing. I am fighting so hard because I know that the real guy I married is still in there somewhere, I just need to figure out how to get through to him. I also would like for the OOW to fall off a cliff or something, but that's not very nice now is it? If,....no WHEN we get through this, I know we will be better for it. Hang in there.
Me 41 H 42 T 21 yrs M 16 yrs S15, S11 Bomb 1: Not happy 09/06 Bomb 2: Not in Love 02/08 Bomb 3: Admits to EA, poss PA? with OOW 03/24/08 Moved out 04/11/08 (our 16th wedding anniversary) Go Bills! Go Sabres!
