its all not fair, and no its also not fair that you will have to support him. I too agree that if the S cheats they shouldn't be entitled to alimony. property is different but alimony.. no. Do you think he would be so bold as to take it? Some men would just have too much pride..
If he asks you about the meeting i would be very very vague, don't tell him too much, let him wonder a bit, you want him to be quessing a little. he needs to worry. but if he pressures you, i would come right out and say, what exactly do you expect??
Good luck and let us know... take care
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