Zoo's are fun! im glad you had a good day with d3.

yes getting out of the house gives you a different frame of mind. i agree.

yes he sure has made mess of things, i don't understand how he wants you to act really, after everything he has done, you would think he would have some shame.. that's what makes them so crazy!

I would not re-adjust my attitude either. i would just go on and do my thing like he isn't even there with you when he stops by, pay him no mind.. Its really sad that he is in a totally different place..

But you are in a better one, and I would just stick to your plan.

your doing great!

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.