Quoting LL: as far as h's work...in a few weeks things will settle down..and I'll find something new to complain about...just kidding!
Well it looks like you recognize an old pattern that just doesn't work!
Quoting LL from earlier post: let's try and do LL a favor and think possitive..look for the possitives in her sit...stop pointing out the negatives..
... and now you've found something that really does work for ya ...
... and even tho the C session last night was particularly rough this go around, its big that your H did finally speak up on his own before the night was over in an effort to try to bridge the communication gap from his end.
How many times have you express here how you wish H would just say something to you in order to make a deposit in your love bank. You may not exactly like what he express, but he did make the effort to express it.
Recognize that for what it is, his attempt to speak your language.