Thanks Sare. That is just it, I LOVE my mom too. She really is my best friend and has been my rock through all of this...but I can't stand being mothered. I really can't stand it. She is constantly telling me what to do and I think today I was just at the end of my rope. She guilts me into things too and that infuriates me.
The thing is that H got his own place here when he left TX. It isn't like I would just be going back to "our" place. If it was our place before then I would do just what you did...go back.
If that house doesn't sell soon I won't have to worry about it because I will be living in a loony bin!